One-Minute Book Reviews

November 27, 2006

Josephine Ross on Jane Austen’s View of Manners

A charmingly illustrated explanation of the Regency etiquette rules followed by the novelist’s characters

Jane Austen’s Guide to Good Manners: Compliments, Charades & Horrible Blunders. By Josephine Ross. Illustrated by Henrietta Webb. Boomsbury, 133 pp., $14.95.

A while back, I wrote a novel about a bride-to-be who believed that Jane Austen could have solved all her romantic problems. One reason for her view, I hoped, was clear: Austen’s novels are full of rules for social conduct.

The catch – for my heroine as for others – is that Austen’s characters typically follow rules that are implicit, not explicit. And because Austen was a satirist, her precepts can’t always be taken at face value even when they are spelled out. Perhaps the best case in point is the much-misunderstood first line of Pride and Prejudice, which is often taken literally though meant ironically: “It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.”

Josephine Ross has decoded some of the social conventions of the Regency era in Jane Austen’s Guide to Good Manners. And as befits an ironist like Austen, this book is less a “guide to good manners” than a literary companion disguised as Regency self-help manual.

Ross does not try to extrapolate from the behavior of Elizabeth Bennet, Emma Woodhouse and others to modern life. Instead she describes the rules of the Regency era as she sees them and shows how Austen’s characters observe or break them. The rule “Do not be presumptuous in offering introductions” leads to a brief discussion of the proper ways of introducing people in the early 1800s. Then Ross writes: “When Lady Catherine de Bourgh, in high dudgeon, calls on the Bennets in Pride and Prejudice to dissuade Elizabeth from marrying her nephew Darcy, she does not ask Lizzy to introduce her mother, and sits for some time in the presence of awed Mrs. Bennet, who has therefore not been granted permission to converse with her Ladyship in her own house. This, of course, is not ‘good manners.’”

Some of the conventions that Ross describes went out with the chamber pot: “After dinner the ladies must withdraw.” Others continue in a modified form: “When in doubt, talk of the weather.” Either way, Ross writes so gracefully that her book is a delight, enhanced by charming watercolors by Henrietta Webb. How nice that she and her collaborator knew enough not to take literally the words of Northanger Abby: “A woman, especially, if she have the misfortune of knowing anything, should conceal it as well as she can.”

Best line: “Only by understanding Society’s strict rules is anyone – man or woman – in a position to break them.”

Worst line: Why doesn’t the comma in “Compliments, Charades,” which appears on the cover, show up also on the title page?

Recommended if … you’re looking for an ideal gift for an Austen fan.

Published: October 2006

Posted by Janice Harayda
© 2006 Janice Harayda. All rights reserved.

One-Minute Book Reviews is an independent book-review blog created by Janice Harayda, an award-winning journalist who has been the book columnist for Glamour, book editor and critic for The (Cleveland) Plain Dealer, and vice-president of the National Book Critics Circle. Please visit to learn more about her comic novels.




  1. I find Jane Austen sort of hard to read. I don’t know why seeing as Heart of Darkness is one of my favorite novels. What’s your favorite piece?

    Comment by shelbycockrell — November 28, 2006 @ 3:40 am | Reply

  2. Thank you for this review! I held this very book in my hand at the bookstore over the weekend, but then decided against it. My reason for not buying it was basically that I was concerned the author had taken a serious bent on the manners and customs in Austen’s books … but the irony and satire in Austen’s writings are what I enjoy most. So I was concerned I’d just find myself offended by an examination of the manners from the books. Now that I know this book isn’t taking a serioius slant on recommending those manners for today’s reader, I’m going to head back to the bookstore this week and purchase the book. Thanks again for your review! Very timely. 🙂


    Comment by dsimple — November 28, 2006 @ 2:45 pm | Reply

  3. My favorite Jane Austen novels

    Thanks for your comment, Shelby. I especially like Pride and Prejudice and Persuasion (which many critics consider Austen’s finest book). But I can see why you might find her hard to read. Austen, like so many novelists, can put you off if you don’t start in the wrong place. For example, I found the first 50 pages of Sense and Sensibility to be rough going — almost turgid, and definitely much slower-paced than first 50 of, say, Pride and Prejudice. If I had started with S&S, I don’t know if I would have kept going. I’d give Austen another try if you haven’t tried P&P or Persuasion.

    Comment by 1minutebookreviewswordpresscom — November 28, 2006 @ 3:08 pm | Reply

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